EY Y04 L32 Love and Romance

This week’s Questions

Did you give or receive anything last Valentine's Day? If yes, what did you give or receive? If no, what do you think would make a good Valentine's Day gift?
Did you give or receive anything last White Day? If yes, what did you give or receive? If no, what do you think would make a good White Day gift?
What is a good activity for a couple to do on a first date? Is this something that you yourself have done or would do?
How have recent developments like the Covid-19 pandemic or the proliferation of smartphones changed the way young people date compared to a generation ago?
Tell us about a married couple that you know who you think are happy. How long have they been married? How did they meet? Did they have a big wedding? Why do you think their marriage works? If you have no married friends or relations who you think are happy, tell us about a couple you know whose marriage is a disaster.
What do you think is the secret to a long-lasting and loving relationship? Why?

This week’s Responses

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Teacher’s Compositions

by D'Vonne Brock

October 5, 2022

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Question 1

No, I had poor luck on Valentine's Day. It's okay, though, because I don't really care about receiving gifts. I would prefer to spend quality time together instead of worrying about choosing material items that will eventually be discarded. The best gift for me would be to have a delicious dinner, watch a movie, and have a nice conversation. This should happen regularly, though, not just on Valentine's Day. We shouldn't need a holiday to remind us to appreciate our partner.

Question 2

White Day is a holiday created in Japan, so I've never celebrated it. I've always decided to do Valentine's Day with my partner just like in the US, where both people do something for each other.

Question 3

I like to keep things simple and not put too much pressure on a first date. I think it's best to just get to know each other over coffee and go for a walk or have a picnic in the park. Just be casual and don't worry too much. If you are nervous you won't be acting like yourself. The whole point is to show the other person who you are. Yes, I have done this and I think it's a good idea.

Question 4

The dating world is completely different now compared to before. I don't think COVID-19 impacted it nearly as much as smartphones did. Everything is about apps now. I feel like apps have made everything harder because it is so impersonal. You can just swipe left or right, judging people based on superficial aspects. It's also easy to "catfish" online, putting up a false image of yourself to attract more people. That false image could be a literal photo or your profile description, stretching the truth, making up fake accomplishments, or flat out lying about your job and hobbies. From the start, your image of them is based on lies.

Question 5

I know several married couples in each category. Some people seem extremely happy together while others experienced disaster. It doesn't really matter to me if the wedding is large or small. The only thing that matters is that both people make an effort to work together and have understanding for each other. Every partnership requires effort on both sides.

Question 6

I don't think there is really a "secret" to having the perfect relationship. Nothing is perfect, but long-lasting and loving is absolutely obtainable. Open communication, empathy, and understanding are some of the most important ingredients in a loving relationship. If we can't talk to our partner, who can we talk to?